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I am a good mom.

Are you a GOOD mom ?
–>  Encouragement for Moms <–

(I added that in case you were waiting for confirmation that you aren’t 🙂  )

I am a good mom.

Say it out loud with me!

Did you find that hard to say?
I did.

Did you find it even more difficult to really settle it in your heart
without a steady stream of accusations floating through your mind?

What?!?

You didn’t wear your baby?  You didn’t potty train by 2?
You’ve had to rewash the towels 3 times because you can’t remember to put them in the dryer?  AND your 9th grader isn’t taking Advanced Calculus this year?   😀

Yeah…still…You ARE a good mom.

Why is this such a hard bunch of words to speak and believe about ourselves ?
Truly, I don’t know of a more loving, giving, hard-working group of ladies
than the mamas that I am blessed to know.
We may all have very different parenting styles, and a different set of goals for our families and ourselves, but one thing we all have in common…We love our children very much.

And love covers a multitude of sins !

I AM A GOOD MOM.
Practice saying the words aloud to yourself till you believe them…then share them
with a friend.

I read a lovely blog post today written by Danielle, a mom just like us.
If you’re in need of some encouragement, or know another mama who needs a reassuring word, read this post and pass it along!!!
THE DO’S AND DON’TS OF BEING A “GOOD” MOM  from Today’s the Best Day
I am a good mom

 

~Thankfulness:  The Real Things Haven’t Changed~
   Words For Wednesdays

Little House on the Prairie

“The real things haven’t changed.
It is still best to be honest and truthful;
to make the most of what we have;
to be happy with simple pleasures;
and have courage when things go wrong.”

~Laura Ingalls Wilder

I have been working on a unit study about life in Frontier America.
I am amazed by the pioneer’s courage and their simple faith.
Thankfulness…the real things haven’t changed.
Their gratitude for the smallest graces
is something we can all reflect on

and aspire to.
What simple pleasures are you thankful for today?
My quick list:
~Laughter
~Hot Coffee
~The smell of baking bread
~Salty, roasted pumpkin seeds
~Music
~The change in seasons today

spider web

~Words for Wednesdays~

Friendship..a tremendous thing
“You have been my friend.
That in itself is a tremendous thing.
I wove my webs for you because I liked you…
A spider’s life can’t help being something of a mess, with all this trapping and eating flies.
By helping you, perhaps I was trying to lift up my life a trifle.
Heaven knows anyone’s life can stand a little of that.”
― E.B. White, Charlotte’s Web

Encouragement for moms~
Go out and PLAY !!

leaves explosion
“If mothers could learn to do for themselves what they do for their children… we should have happier households.

Let the mother go out to play!

If she would only have courage to let everything go when life becomes too tense,
and just take a day, or half a day, out in the fields, or with a favourite book,
or in a picture gallery looking long and well at just two or three pictures,
or in bed, without the children,
life would go on far more happily for both children and parents.”                                                                                                                                      ~Charlotte Mason

Let the mother go out to play !

Don’t you just love those words ?
Children have no trouble playing.
Fun is pulsing through their veins and wiggling out of every limb.
Play just comes naturally to them.
If left alone long enough, children invent the most wonderful games and fantastic stories.
Creativity and imagination are limitless, emotions are being worked out,
FUN is happening !
Think about it…kids generally don’t return from playing outside all stressed out!  🙂

When was the last time that YOU went out to play mom ?

“Men do not quit playing because they grow old;   they grow old because they quit playing.” 
~Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.

Jackolantern


Making Memories

What is your happiest childhood memory?

Really.
Stop and think hard.
Close your eyes and remember.
Think of the all the little details.
It will make you smile.
Even today.

Ever think of how your own children might answer this question someday?

Every day, we have the opportunity to create memories with the people we love.
It doesn’t have to involve expensive vacations or extravagant gifts…just some thought
and some time and lots of love.
Get creative !

I have two (update: THREE😱)  kids in their 20’s.
Every year they ask if we can still carve pumpkins.
It’s a tradition.
They bring their friends…we laugh…throw pumpkin guts…make a huge, sticky mess…
toast pumpkin seeds…eat snacks…and watch “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown!”.

I don’t know about how life changing or meaningful any of that may be,
but every year,  I take a deep breath,
and let the crazy mess begin,
and know we’re making another memory.

Need some easy memory making ideas today?

Here’s a list that I absolutely LOVE,   just to get you started.
10 Things Children Will Always Remember from The 36th Avenue

Making Memories :)
Making Memories 🙂

 

 

It takes some courage . . .
Follow your dreams mamas !

~drawn by my mama, 1973
~drawn by my mama, 1973

Follow your dreams Mamas!

Mamas, don’t ever forget to keep following your dreams.
You’ll inspire your children to dream.

Keep practicing the things that bring you joy.
You’ll encourage your children to try too.

Keep asking yourself what you want to be when you grow up.
You will give your children a living example
to always keep growing
tall and true
with courage.

Wishing you a lovely Wednesday!   🙂

Encouragement for Moms
~Words for Wednesday~
Monday Girl


        Ever want to call in sick ?!?

” A cheerful heart is good medicine” 
   Hope this makes you giggle today !

 

 

          Sick .


“I cannot go to school today,
Said little Peggy Ann McKay.
I have the measles and the mumps,
A gash, a rash and purple bumps.
My mouth is wet, my throat is dry,
I’m going blind in my right eye.

My tonsils are as big as rocks,
I’ve counted sixteen chicken pox
And there’s one more–that’s seventeen,
And don’t you think my face looks green?

My leg is cut–my eyes are blue–
It might be instamatic flu.
I cough and sneeze and gasp and choke,
I’m sure that my left leg is broke–

My hip hurts when I move my chin,
My belly button’s caving in,
My back is wrenched, my ankle’s sprained,
My ‘pendix pains each time it rains.

My nose is cold, my toes are numb.
I have a sliver in my thumb.
My neck is stiff, my voice is weak,
I hardly whisper when I speak.

My tongue is filling up my mouth,
I think my hair is falling out.
My elbow’s bent, my spine ain’t straight,
My temperature is one-o-eight.

My brain is shrunk, I cannot hear,
There is a hole inside my ear.
I have a hangnail, and my heart is–what?

What’s that? What’s that you say?
You say today is. . .Saturday?
G’bye, I’m going out to play!”

~Shel Silverstein
Saturday Girl

~Words for Wednesday~

laugh everyday

“3 Things We Should All Do Everyday”

To me, there are three things we all should do every day.
We should do this every day of our lives.

Number one is laugh. You should laugh every day.

Number two is think. You should spend some time in thought.

Number three is, you should have your emotions
moved to tears
,  
could be happiness or joy.

But think about it.

If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that’s a full day.
That’s a heck of a day.

You do that seven days a week, you’re going to have something special.”

~ Jim Valvano

 


“Don’t ever give up. 
Don’t ever give in. 

Don’t ever stop trying. 
Don’t ever sell out. 
And if you find yourself succumbing to one of the above for a brief moment,
pick yourself up, brush yourself off,
whisper a prayer,
and start where you left off.
But never, ever, ever give up.”
~ Richelle E. Goodrich

Perseverance.
per·se·ver·ance
(noun)  steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.

The word for today.
I know.
It isn’t exactly the most inspiring word ever.
Makes me feel tired just thinking about that word.

But we DO get tired sometimes.

Tired of messes.
Tired of stresses.
Tired of “well doing” .
Or maybe just plain tired.    🙂

Take a few minutes.
Make yourself a steaming hot cup of tea, or take the time to steam some milk and make a beautiful latte.
Next, seek out a cookie.
Any cookie will do.  Really!  Eat a cookie.  Just do it.  You won’t be sorry!  It’s for medicinal reasons !
And then sit (do not stand at the counter, or the table, or fold a load of towels!!!).

Take a deep breath.
Breathe.  Deeply.   Repeat.

Now sip.
Sip while it’s actually still hot.  Don’t gulp in between math problems.  Enjoy the warmth all the way down to your tummy.


< Ignore the noise, the kids jumping on the couch, the dryer buzzer, and all the dog hair dust bunnies that you now notice floating across the living room since you’re actually sitting down-  close your eyes if you have to!!  It will all be there still in 30 minutes.  Unfortunate, but true.>


Remember to take the time (even in short bits) to be filled.
To breathe.
To remind yourself of what is good, what is true, what is lovely.
And fill your heart and mind with those things.

You will be surprised at the feeling of hope and new energy to keep going, I think.

Persevere.

“And let us not be weary in well doing:
for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”
~ Galatians 6:9